A Little bit of Everything
Monday, June 1, 2026
5 Reasons you Need to Watch Ace of the Diamond
Sunday, May 31, 2026
Learning to Love and the Myth of the Ideal Woman
This article will explore how the Japanese drama Learning to Love challenges traditional gender expectations through the experiences of its protagonist, Ogawa. While the series centers on a taboo romance between Ogawa and a male host Kaoru, its deeper message exposes the pressures women face to conform to outdated ideals of the “perfect” woman such as being obedient, dependent, and self-sacrificing. Through Ogawa’s relationships and gradual self-liberation, the show redefines what independence and love can look like for modern women.
Ogawa's relationship with her mother and father was at best a tense one. Her father was very steadfast in his belief that he "owned" both Ogawa and her mother. He used his influence to obtain jobs for Ogawa, tried to arrange who she would marry, and even attempted to lock Ogawa in her room when she tried to move out of the family home and find her independence. We see that same treatment of Ogawa's mom through the drama. She's treated as just a homemaker and the father makes it very clear she should only speak when spoken to.
We also see two failed relationships for Ogawa throughout the drama. The first one we see is a relationship between Ogawa and her coworker that ends in Ogawa's coworker cheating on her. Her next romantic setback came in the form of her arranged fiance, Kawahara. He's a wealthy man working in finance with her father. Although not as traumatic due to Ogawa's indifference towards him, Kawahara also cheats on Ogawa. This is all done while him spending the earlier part of the series judging Ogawa for her relationship with Kaoru. Kawahara does take a turn towards the end of the series by acknowledging that both he and Kaoru, the host, have flaws, but in different moral ways.
Although the most "taboo" relationship, the most successful relationship in the drama is Ogawa's relationship with Kaoru. Despite his much younger age, livelihood as a host, and lack of formal education, Kaoru is the first man in the series we see treat Ogawa with kindness and respect. He shows himself to be better than the more educated men Ogawa was with previously. He supports her growth and works to overcome his own learning challenges, showing love rooted in equality rather than control.
By the end of the drama we see major growth from Ogawa. She successfully moves out of the family home into her own apartment and confesses her relationship with Kaoru publicly which results in consequences such as her losing her job. She's able to find a new job on her own without her father's help symbolizing true independence and freedom from societal and familial expectations.
Wednesday, July 26, 2023
BTS x Blue Lock Characters
Jin and Mikage Reo
I think this may be one of the most obvious ones here. Jin and Reo have two major things in common. First both are RIDICULOUSLY charming. I enjoyed Reo more and more after watching him in the anime and seeing him more in the manga. Do I even need to say anything about this for Jin? I really think Jin is one of the most charming Kpop idols. The flying kisses just always get me. Second, they both have that family business dad is a CEO type thing going on. Jin's father is the CEO of a major company and we know that Reo's family is ridiculously rich. A clear match made in heaven. Also.. we miss you Jin.
Yoongi and Nagi Seishiro
Hoseok and Nijiro Nanase
Namjoon and Isagi Yoichi
Jimin and Chigiri Hyoma
Taehyung and Yo Hiori
Jungkook and Rin Itoshi
Friday, June 30, 2023
The Studio Ghibli Movie Bound to Make you Cry: Grave of the Fireflies
Ranking all the Kdramas I Watched in 2022
2022 was a GREAT year in kdramas for me. I watched a total of 12 kdramas and only maybe one on this list I wasn't really a fan of. The ranking for 1-6 was very difficult and could honestly switch depending on the day you asked me about them. With that brief introduction over let's jump into my rankings starting from 12!
It pains me to have Twenty-Five Twenty-One at only #2. When I say I LOVED this kdrama, I truly mean it. I was already a little biased as a huge Nam Joo-hyuk fan, but we had everything in Twenty-Five Twenty-One. High school drama, amazing friend groups, a high level of chemistry, and even sports! By the end you'll truly feel that it was a pleasure to watch the character grows from high school kids/young adults to full fledge grown ups. Now I know some people may try and avoid this one due to the controversy surrounding the ending, and while I'll admit it wasn't my favorite ending ever... overall I don't think it took away much from the drama at all. Twenty-Five Twenty-One through and through gets a 9/10 from me.
Wednesday, October 19, 2016
Yesstyle Haul Part 2
| So firstly I had the My Lip Tint pack in "Sexy red", I haven't tried this yet for myself but I have heard great things and I will definitely do a review when I try it out. http://www.yesstyle.com/en/info.html/pid.1045546382 |
| I bought the pimple patches again.. Honestly these are wonderful they work wonders for bigger pimples! http://www.yesstyle.com/en/info.html/pid.1052684646 |
| Next I got the Salicylic Acid Exfoliating Cleanser and I must say it hasn't been too long so I don't notice a huge difference, but I am noticing a slight one so I hope it keeps working! http://www.yesstyle.com/en/info.html/pid.1052684727 |
| Another Cosrx product! Same with the exfoliating cleanser I haven't been using these for a ridiculously long amount of time, but they definitely do seem to clean my face well and they remove all extra makeup.http://www.yesstyle.com/en/info.html/pid.1052684723 |
Thursday, October 6, 2016
Yesstyle Skincare Haul
So not too long ago I got a package from Yesstyle and I haven't had the chance to try out all the products, but I at least thought I'd share what I got. In total I spent $44.50 on everything.
| Here I have the Innisfree black head out balm. I haven't used this yet but I have heard very good things! |
| I got two etude house lip tints that I have tried out and both are really pretty and look very natural. I got cherry pink and cherry red! |
| I haven't used this one yet but I'll definitely do a review when I finally do use this. It's the skinfood egg white pore mask. |
| Firstly I'll show you guys this free gift that I got with my purchase. This face oil remover film came free. |
| Next I got the Cosrx pimple patches and I must save I've used this quite a few times and it works really well! |

























